by Gene Crawford | Aug 4, 2025 | Podcast
After earning a red card at a youth soccer game, Aaron and I reflect on emotional control, brutal honesty, and the power of self-censorship. Inspired by Jefferson Fisher and “Self-Censorship Is Actually Good,” we role-play ways to speak truth with empathy. From sideline chaos and parenting stress to stoic communication principles, this episode blends humor, humility, and hard-earned lessons. Learn to navigate social tension, say “no” with confidence, and speak wisely—especially when emotions run high.
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by Gene Crawford | Nov 12, 2024 | Podcast
In this episode, we explore diverse topics, from Madrid subway pickpocketing to crisis management in programs for adults with intellectual disabilities. Ley Linder, a seasoned behavior analyst and gerontologist, shares insights on how empathy and observational skills enhance leadership, self-defense, and even dog training. We also dig into a story about one of Ley’s employees who exemplifies quick thinking during a sensory overload crisis, highlighting the importance of patience in challenging environments. The episode wraps up with a heartfelt discussion on the emotional weight carried by caregivers, offering humor and practical advice on adapting to challenges in fitness and daily life.
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by Gene Crawford | Aug 20, 2024 | Podcast
What does it take to truly command respect without coming off as arrogant? Uncover the secrets behind this delicate balance in our latest episode. We dive into the essence of respect in communication, sharing personal stories and valuable insights on empathy, active listening, and politeness. From meeting new people to professional interactions, find out how these foundational elements can shape and elevate your connections.
We also touch on the balance between expecting respectful interactions and avoiding an entitled attitude. Authenticity and respect in interactions are more than just concepts—they are practices we can master. We share insights from various settings, including concerts and gyms, emphasizing the power of genuine actions over fear-based respect. Reflecting on the importance of self-awareness and adaptability, especially in professional and martial arts contexts, we highlight how these principles can help maintain positive relationships.
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by Gene Crawford | Jul 30, 2023 | Podcast
Are we really doing justice to social justice? In this episode Dr. Scott and I find ourselves treading the tricky terrain of political correctness and social justice warriors, trying to strike a balance and sow understanding. We’re deciphering the evolving rulebook of political correctness, while also reflecting on how empathy can shape more inclusive societies. In this dance of respect and sensitivity, we find ourselves contemplating the trials of raising a new generation in a world that doesn’t always encourage introspective thought.
As we all find ourselves grappling with feelings of anxiety and the role of government in economic health. It’s an exploration of how these challenges touch our lives daily and the reality of personal responsibility in a world where rescue often doesn’t arrive. It’s a tough pill to swallow, but we dive into it, exploring the intricacies and the disappointments, and learning how to navigate this new reality.
Finally, we’re turning the mirror on ourselves, discussing the power of self-love and its role in our relationships. We all hold the keys to our own happiness, and we explore how acceptance can lead to transformative change. We’re pulling back the curtain on the marriages of friends and family, sharing our insights and delving into the challenges that come with balancing relationships. Remember, self-love is an action, not a belief. So join us, let’s journey through these topics together.
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by Gene Crawford | Jul 3, 2023 | Podcast
Have you ever found yourself taking things too personally, or struggling to handle difficult situations in your daily life? Don’t worry, you’re not alone! In our latest episode, we discuss how to stop personalizing interactions, handle emotions and empathy, and maintain grace under pressure when faced with challenging circumstances. By understanding the importance of empathy and self-worth, we can learn to think objectively and better cope with the inevitable bumps in the road.
We take a deep look at how to handle rude behavior, remain civil in the face of confrontation, and balance introversion with shyness. Our conversation also touches on the importance of not making everything about us, prioritizing ourselves first, and finding ways to improve after making mistakes. By accepting our limitations and leaning into detachment, we can separate ourselves from our ego and make more mindful decisions in both business and personal situations.
As we wrap up, we explore the value of self-worth and personal responsibility, and discuss how to handle criticism without letting it define our identity. We even delve into the potential impact of AI on our future careers and how to be prepared for change. Join us in this eye-opening discussion, and learn how to harness the power of empathy, detachment, and personal responsibility to create a more balanced and fulfilling life.
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