by Gene Crawford | Jul 14, 2025 | Podcast

Author and modern masculinity advocate Kelvin Davis joins us to explore the difference between being a “nice guy” and being a good man. Drawing from his upcoming book, Kelvin shares seven transformative principles—from setting boundaries to self-respect—that challenge performative niceness and promote authentic integrity. We dive into how social media often rewards superficial validation over sincere action, and why honest communication matters more than ever. Kelvin reflects on his inspiring journey—from a childhood dream sparked by a JCPenney ad to founding Notoriously Dapper, overcoming body-shaming, and building a modeling career rooted in body positivity and self-worth. He opens up about personal growth through therapy, quitting alcohol, and reevaluating relationships during the pandemic. This candid conversation highlights the power of self-reflection, discipline, and internal validation. Whether you’re navigating modern relationships or redefining your role as a man, this episode offers grounded insight into becoming the kind of man who leads with honesty, respect, and purpose.
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by Gene Crawford | Jul 7, 2025 | Podcast
This episode tackles the spectacle of performative masculinity and the rise of man-fluencers like Liver King, Wes Watson, and Jack Donovan. We expose the marketing behind ancestral tenets, supplement empires, and controversial ideologies. From Liver King’s arrest to Jack Donovan’s far-right leanings, we question what’s real versus contrived. We highlight the contrast between performative posturing and authentic growth, featuring a post from Kelvin Davis as a grounded example. We also critique how workouts like Murph get hijacked by social media. Wrapping with a wild gorilla-versus-humans debate, this episode blends serious critique with humor to explore what masculinity really means today.
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by Gene Crawford | Jun 9, 2025 | Podcast
In this episode, we dive into the story of Zach Smith, co-founder of Anywhere.com, a travel company built on connection, resilience, and intention. Zach shares how a chance encounter in Costa Rica led to a business that now crafts immersive, locally guided journeys in developing countries. We explore how Anywhere.com fosters global understanding, the grit it took to overcome legal threats, and the strategy behind its growth. Zach also opens up about staying grounded through physical fitness and real-world engagement. His perspective challenges us to lead with presence, embrace cultural curiosity, and build something meaningful through persistence and purpose.
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by Gene Crawford | May 26, 2025 | Podcast
We’re talking with Bill Phillips; retired Navy Commander, cancer survivor, and founder of the KFG Project. After a stage three colorectal cancer diagnosis, Bill leaned on the mental tools forged in military service to navigate the fight of his life. We explore how his mantra “Keep F*ing Going” became a lifeline and mission, now driving KFG’s work supporting veterans and first responders through cancer recovery. Bill shares raw insights on purpose after service, resilience through chaos, and the power of presence. This is a powerful conversation about grit, healing, and building a legacy through hardship.
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by Gene Crawford | Mar 31, 2025 | Podcast
Step into the shifting world of modern masculinity as we unravel the image transformations of tech icons—beginning with Mark Zuckerberg. Once the hoodie-clad coder, Zuckerberg’s new fighter-physique and stoic stare tell a different story. But why the change? We peel back the layers of this calculated rebranding and explore how media crafts masculine ideals—from the “tech bro” archetype to martial arts influencers like Joe Rogan.
Through vivid stories, personal reflection, and pop culture references, Shekeese and I examine the spectrum of masculinity: traditional, toxic, and healthy. What messages are we absorbing? What should we pass on?
This episode invites you to question the media mirror, seek authenticity, and redefine strength—not as performance, but as purpose. Tune in for a deeper look.
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