by Gene Crawford | Jul 14, 2025 | Podcast
Author and modern masculinity advocate Kelvin Davis joins us to explore the difference between being a “nice guy” and being a good man. Drawing from his upcoming book, Kelvin shares seven transformative principles—from setting boundaries to self-respect—that challenge performative niceness and promote authentic integrity. We dive into how social media often rewards superficial validation over sincere action, and why honest communication matters more than ever. Kelvin reflects on his inspiring journey—from a childhood dream sparked by a JCPenney ad to founding Notoriously Dapper, overcoming body-shaming, and building a modeling career rooted in body positivity and self-worth. He opens up about personal growth through therapy, quitting alcohol, and reevaluating relationships during the pandemic. This candid conversation highlights the power of self-reflection, discipline, and internal validation. Whether you’re navigating modern relationships or redefining your role as a man, this episode offers grounded insight into becoming the kind of man who leads with honesty, respect, and purpose.
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by Gene Crawford | Jun 2, 2025 | Podcast
In this Debrief episode, we kick off with the bizarre trend of men shaving their eyelashes, a quirky gateway into a deeper discussion about how AI might be dulling our problem-solving and empathetic abilities. From there, we confront social media’s culture of complaint, emphasizing the value of personal accountability and small, consistent action. Shifting to leadership, we question the obsession with KPIs, advocating instead for empathy-driven innovation. Finally, inspired by figures like Anthony Mackie, we explore modern masculinity, physical readiness, and the power of using digital platforms for growth. Tune in for sharp insights on staying human in a hyper-digital world.
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by Gene Crawford | Mar 31, 2025 | Podcast
Step into the shifting world of modern masculinity as we unravel the image transformations of tech icons—beginning with Mark Zuckerberg. Once the hoodie-clad coder, Zuckerberg’s new fighter-physique and stoic stare tell a different story. But why the change? We peel back the layers of this calculated rebranding and explore how media crafts masculine ideals—from the “tech bro” archetype to martial arts influencers like Joe Rogan.
Through vivid stories, personal reflection, and pop culture references, Shekeese and I examine the spectrum of masculinity: traditional, toxic, and healthy. What messages are we absorbing? What should we pass on?
This episode invites you to question the media mirror, seek authenticity, and redefine strength—not as performance, but as purpose. Tune in for a deeper look.
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by Gene Crawford | Nov 19, 2024 | Podcast
In this Debrief style episode let’s together delve into the balance between fitness and mental resilience, exploring the thin line between disciplined commitment and obsession. With insights from icons like David Goggins and Mark Manson, we uncover what drives extreme exercise and how to keep a healthy perspective. Pro surfer Laird Hamilton and free climber Alex Honnold bring fresh views on risk and motivation, helping us assess personal limits. From transitioning between fitness styles to the significance of martial arts etiquette, we discuss injury prevention, respect, and authenticity—offering a guide to achieving both personal and physical growth.
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by Gene Crawford | Nov 12, 2024 | Podcast
In this episode, we explore diverse topics, from Madrid subway pickpocketing to crisis management in programs for adults with intellectual disabilities. Ley Linder, a seasoned behavior analyst and gerontologist, shares insights on how empathy and observational skills enhance leadership, self-defense, and even dog training. We also dig into a story about one of Ley’s employees who exemplifies quick thinking during a sensory overload crisis, highlighting the importance of patience in challenging environments. The episode wraps up with a heartfelt discussion on the emotional weight carried by caregivers, offering humor and practical advice on adapting to challenges in fitness and daily life.
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