by Gene Crawford | Jul 14, 2025 | Podcast
Author and modern masculinity advocate Kelvin Davis joins us to explore the difference between being a “nice guy” and being a good man. Drawing from his upcoming book, Kelvin shares seven transformative principles—from setting boundaries to self-respect—that challenge performative niceness and promote authentic integrity. We dive into how social media often rewards superficial validation over sincere action, and why honest communication matters more than ever. Kelvin reflects on his inspiring journey—from a childhood dream sparked by a JCPenney ad to founding Notoriously Dapper, overcoming body-shaming, and building a modeling career rooted in body positivity and self-worth. He opens up about personal growth through therapy, quitting alcohol, and reevaluating relationships during the pandemic. This candid conversation highlights the power of self-reflection, discipline, and internal validation. Whether you’re navigating modern relationships or redefining your role as a man, this episode offers grounded insight into becoming the kind of man who leads with honesty, respect, and purpose.
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by Gene Crawford | Jun 2, 2025 | Podcast
In this Debrief episode, we kick off with the bizarre trend of men shaving their eyelashes, a quirky gateway into a deeper discussion about how AI might be dulling our problem-solving and empathetic abilities. From there, we confront social media’s culture of complaint, emphasizing the value of personal accountability and small, consistent action. Shifting to leadership, we question the obsession with KPIs, advocating instead for empathy-driven innovation. Finally, inspired by figures like Anthony Mackie, we explore modern masculinity, physical readiness, and the power of using digital platforms for growth. Tune in for sharp insights on staying human in a hyper-digital world.
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by Gene Crawford | Apr 21, 2025 | Podcast
What if the key to outlasting the talented isn’t more talent, but something far less flashy, stamina? Stamina is the quiet, often-overlooked edge that keeps you moving forward when the spotlight fades. It’s the parent who stays engaged after a long day, the entrepreneur pushing through setbacks, and anyone willing to face the daily grind head-on. In this episode, we break down the real meaning of stamina and how to train it, by building grit, focusing on consistency over results, and developing micro-habits. Learn to cultivate lasting resilience and discover why stamina outlasts hype, motivation, and even raw talent.
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by Gene Crawford | Apr 14, 2025 | Podcast
This episode explores the path of self-improvement through intentional daily habits, drawing on insights from figures like Mark Manson and Arnold Schwarzenegger. We reflect on Manson’s “You’re Not Special,” challenge self-gratification culture, and promote meaningful growth. From Arnold’s Pump Club, we highlight conserving energy for what truly matters. We dive into visualization techniques inspired by the Blue Angels, discuss crafting personalized morning routines, and the power of mental rehearsal. We emphasize disconnecting from digital noise through physical activities and explore breathwork, mindset, and resilience with insights from Coach Divine, martial arts, and thought leaders like Stephen Thompson and Jason Wilson.
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by Gene Crawford | Mar 31, 2025 | Podcast
Step into the shifting world of modern masculinity as we unravel the image transformations of tech icons—beginning with Mark Zuckerberg. Once the hoodie-clad coder, Zuckerberg’s new fighter-physique and stoic stare tell a different story. But why the change? We peel back the layers of this calculated rebranding and explore how media crafts masculine ideals—from the “tech bro” archetype to martial arts influencers like Joe Rogan.
Through vivid stories, personal reflection, and pop culture references, Shekeese and I examine the spectrum of masculinity: traditional, toxic, and healthy. What messages are we absorbing? What should we pass on?
This episode invites you to question the media mirror, seek authenticity, and redefine strength—not as performance, but as purpose. Tune in for a deeper look.
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