Are you living a life of purpose? In this episode, we dive deep into the concept of living a life of purpose and how it changes throughout different stages of our lives. We discuss the importance of having a mission and developing personal values to guide us on our journey towards fulfillment. Discover how embracing your unique purpose can lead to a more fulfilling life and help you overcome challenges along the way.
Join us as we dive deep into the world of self-care, positive psychology, and the effects of psychedelics on the mind and body. We explore the journey of self-care and the pursuit of a meaningful life, focusing on helping our families and understanding our character strengths. We discuss the science behind psychedelics like psilocybin, their ability to help us “think outside the box”, and the growing interest in mushroom-based supplements for mental and physical well-being. 🧠
We also delve into the default mode network and its influence on our thoughts and reactions as we age, as well as the potential benefits and experiences of psilocybin-assisted therapy. Join us as we share our personal experiences with self-experimentation and self-discovery through psychedelics. 🎧
Ikigai is a Japanese concept that roughly translates to “a reason for being.” It refers to finding a sense of purpose or fulfillment in life. It can be thought of as the intersection of four elements: what you are good at, what you enjoy, what the world needs, and what you can be paid for. The idea is that by identifying and pursuing your ikigai, you can lead a more fulfilling and satisfying life.
Ikigai can help you find your purpose in life by providing a framework for thinking about what you are passionate about, what you are good at, what the world needs, and what you can be paid for. By considering these four elements, you can identify potential areas of interest that align with your skills, values, and goals.
For example, if you are good at writing and enjoy researching, you might consider becoming a journalist, where you can use your writing skills to inform the public about important issues. If you are passionate about helping others and have a background in psychology, you might consider becoming a therapist, where you can use your skills to support and empower individuals.
By considering these different elements, you can start to see patterns and find potential areas of interest that align with your passions, skills, and values. From there, you can take action by learning more about these areas, volunteering or interning in them, and gaining the necessary skills and qualifications to pursue them as a career.
In summary, Ikigai helps you to focus on what is important to you, what you are good at, what the world needs and how you can make money out of it. It helps you to find a sense of purpose and fulfillment in life by aligning your passions, skills, and values with meaningful work and activities.
These four parts of Ikigai are:
Passion (What You Love): This aspect refers to what you are truly passionate about, what brings you joy, and what you love to do. It’s the activities or interests that make you feel alive and enthusiastic. Identifying your passion is the first step in finding your Ikigai.
Vocation (What the World Needs): Vocation relates to what the world needs or values. It’s the contribution you can make to society, your community, or the people around you. It involves using your talents, skills, and abilities to make a positive impact on others’ lives.
Profession (What You’re Good At): This part of Ikigai focuses on your skills and expertise. It’s about recognizing what you excel at and what you can do proficiently. Your profession is often what you can turn into a career or a means of sustaining yourself.
Mission (What You Can Be Paid For): Mission relates to what you can be paid for, as it involves finding a way to earn a living through your passions, skills, and contributions. It’s about identifying opportunities to turn your Ikigai into a source of income or financial stability.
The beauty of Ikigai lies in the synergy among these four parts:
Passion and Vocation: When you align what you love with what the world needs, you find a sense of purpose. You’re not just pursuing your interests; you’re making a meaningful impact on others.
Vocation and Profession: Combining what the world needs with what you’re good at leads to a fulfilling career. It allows you to apply your skills to contribute positively to society and earn a living in the process.
Profession and Mission: Identifying what you can be paid for and what you’re good at ensures financial stability and success in your chosen field. It’s about turning your skills and expertise into a sustainable livelihood.
Mission and Passion: When you can earn a living doing what you love, you achieve a deep sense of satisfaction. Your work becomes more than just a job; it becomes a source of joy and fulfillment.
Ultimately, the goal of Ikigai is to find the sweet spot at the intersection of these four elements, where your passion, vocation, profession, and mission converge. It’s in this harmonious balance that you discover your purpose in life, leading to a sense of contentment, satisfaction, and a fulfilling existence.
Ikigai can help you find a reason to get up every morning by providing a sense of purpose and motivation. When you have a clear understanding of your ikigai, you have a sense of direction and a reason to wake up each day. Knowing that you are working towards something that you are passionate about and that aligns with your skills, values, and goals can give you a sense of fulfillment and motivation to continue pursuing it.
Additionally, when you are doing something that you are good at, enjoy, the world needs, and can make money from, it can make you feel more engaged, excited and satisfied with your life, which can make you feel more motivated to get up in the morning and take on the day.
It’s also important to remember that finding your ikigai is a journey, not a destination. It may take time to find what truly makes you fulfilled and motivated, and your ikigai may change as you grow and evolve as a person. But by regularly reflecting on your passions, skills, values and goals, you can continue to refine and align them with the purpose of your life and find a reason to wake up every day with a sense of purpose and motivation.
Reading is a habit that can have a profound impact on your personal and professional growth. Successful people are known to be voracious readers, consuming a book a week or more. If you want to join their ranks and take your knowledge and skills to the next level, consider challenging yourself to read four books in 30 days.
Just one book can change your life, and imagine what reading four in a month could do for you. By increasing your reading rate and investing in yourself, you’ll be on your way to becoming the best version of yourself. In this article, we’ll explore how you can read four books in 30 days and the benefits of doing so.
Why You Should Read Four Books in 30 Days
Reading is one of the most valuable habits you can cultivate. It expands your knowledge, improves your vocabulary, and boosts your creativity. The benefits of reading are endless, and the more you read, the more you’ll learn and grow.
By reading four books in 30 days, you’ll challenge yourself to consume more information and broaden your horizons. You’ll develop a better understanding of the world and become a more well-rounded person. Plus, reading is a great way to unwind and relax after a long day, so it’s a win-win situation.
How to Read Four Books in 30 Days
Reading four books in 30 days may seem like a daunting task, but it’s definitely achievable. Here are some tips to help you get started:
Set a goal: Setting a goal is the first step to success. Decide how many pages you’ll read each day and make it a habit.
Create a reading list: Choose the books you want to read ahead of time, so you don’t waste time deciding what to read next.
Eliminate distractions: Turn off your phone, TV, and computer while you’re reading to avoid distractions.
Read everywhere: Bring a book with you wherever you go and read during your commute, lunch break, or before bed.
Prioritize reading: Make reading a priority over other activities that aren’t as important.
Join a book club: Joining a book club is a great way to stay motivated and accountable.
Take notes: Take notes while you’re reading to help you remember important points and ideas.
Benefits of Reading Four Books in 30 Days
Reading four books in 30 days has numerous benefits that can help you become a better person. Here are some of the benefits of reading:
Expands your knowledge: Reading is one of the best ways to learn new things and broaden your horizons.
Improves your vocabulary: The more you read, the more words you’ll learn, and the better you’ll be able to communicate.
Boosts creativity: Reading can help you develop your imagination and come up with new ideas.
Reduces stress: Reading is a great way to relax and unwind after a long day.
Enhances empathy: Reading can help you understand different perspectives and develop empathy for others.
Reading is one of the best habits you can cultivate, and challenging yourself to read four books in 30 days can be a life-changing experience. By increasing your reading rate, you’ll be able to expand your knowledge, improve your vocabulary, and boost your creativity. So, if you’re looking to invest in yourself and take your personal and professional growth to the next level, consider picking up a book today.
In this episode, Gene goes on a solo debrief and talks about some thoughts that have been on his mind. He discusses the reasons why people of like mind tend to use the word “extreme” and talks about his personal experience with personal training adventures. He also reflects on the negative comments people leave on videos of individuals engaging in extreme physical activities, and how these comments reflect where we are as a society. He shares his belief that physical, mental, and spiritual growth should not be separated, and how he finds it important to push his personal limits to raise his own personal standards. Gene also talks about the importance of service and how it ties into your personal growth.
Aaron finally showed up for a show! We’re going to talk about 10-ish ways people can improve themselves and achieve personal growth, such as managing expectations, starting small, practicing gratitude, being kind to oneself, avoiding over-analysis, valuing personal opinions over others’, and setting realistic expectations. By recognizing these issues and working to develop healthier habits, individuals can achieve greater personal growth. You may be your own worst enemy, with habits such as over-analyzing, taking things for granted, and valuing others’ opinions over their own.
Fiona joins me a discussion on “The Four Agreements” a book that offers practical guidance for personal freedom and self-mastery through four key principles rooted in ancient Toltec wisdom. The principles include being impeccable with our word, not taking anything personally, not making assumptions, and always doing our best. Following these principles can lead to more fulfilling and harmonious relationships with ourselves and others. The book emphasizes the power of our words, self-awareness, non-judgment, and acceptance.
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Let’s talk about the topic of self-improvement and how you can use three powerful concepts to grow and improve yourself. These concepts include controlling your mind, never stopping learning, and being selfless.
Jen’s story is a testament to the importance of finding purpose and leaving a lasting impact. Her journey is a reminder that life can be quick, sandy, and sometimes inspiring and terrifying at the same time. However, with determination and a positive mindset, anyone can overcome challenges and achieve their goals.
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Everyone loves a great story and Kelvin is no exception. While working as a public school art teacher he was “discovered” as a menswear model. The thing is though he had been grinding nightly building his blog and online presence as a body positivity menswear influencer – he was just ready to go when he got the call up to the big leagues.
In this episode, Aaron and Gene talk about the benefits of delegation and having a strong team, as well as the concept of “flow state” and how it can improve productivity and well-being. They also discuss the importance of setting goals and using visualization to achieve them, and the role of self-care in maintaining a healthy mindset. They also emphasize the value of learning from failures and using them as opportunities for growth.
The Book of Five Rings is a treatise on swordsmanship and martial arts written by Miyamoto Musashi. IMHO the top five concepts introduced in the book include: No Mind, The Void, Three Modes of Attack, The Way of the Sword, The Five Rings
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Have you ever heard about Musashi’s last duel before he wrote the Book of 5 Rings? Then the second half talking about showing appreciation for those that support you and help you grow.
Discussion on this post titled Powerful Habits from the World’s Top Achievers about the following habits you can create for yourself;The 5 Hour Rule, The Power of Doing Nothing, The High-Five Habit, No Electronics at Bedtime, Flow State Ritual
Fiona joins me a discussion on Triathlons, Ultras, her training and making her way through a world that doesn’t exactly support an outdoor fitness lifestyle when it comes to sharing the physical environment we all live in.
Will has a really great thought process and approach to how he balances his work and life. Taking a sabbatical and focusing on personal growth has helped pave the way to being prepared for the things to come in his life so far.
Talking with Coach Michael Brazell about the ins and outs of coaching and connecting with the people we coach in a meaningful way. Being present and mindful of where we are in life is always an aspect of how Coach Mike approaches his craft.
Talking with Sherard “Shekeese” Duvall about some things going on media (social media) wise lately and why learning what media literacy is and why is it so important to get a handle on it for your own self defense.
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There is a lot of talk about being a Lone Wolf. It can be seen as a positive strategy or negative one. Who are we to judge you, but we will still give you our 2 cents on it.
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We are joined by Dr. Scott Padgett to talk about his journey through the 12 steps. A very humble conversation about what it takes to make your way through the program form his own personal experience.
Being authentically you at both work and at home means taking action on the things that make themselves known to you, confronting the things you fear most and walking the walk with the promises you make.
