by Gene Crawford | Oct 27, 2025 | Podcast
Let’s challenge some stereotypes by dissecting this “10 Harsh Masculine Truths” post and reframing toxic masculinity as an issue of individual character. Through stoic principles, we emphasize humility, resilience, and genuine strength over cynicism or bravado. Shifting to the life in the Dojo, we explore the true meaning of earning a Blackbelt, not as an end goal but as the beginning of lifelong learning, teaching, and humility. We discuss aging as a martial artist and the importance of inclusivity and respect within the community. Finally, we unpack emotional authenticity in men, using the “crayon box” metaphor to encourage a broader range of expression, touching on gaming, comics, and other outlets that reveal how growth and effort define real strength.
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by Gene Crawford | Sep 1, 2025 | Podcast
In this candid and often hilarious episode, we unpack the rollercoaster of modern parenting—from the pressures of youth sports and living vicariously through our kids, to the deeper questions of legacy, masculinity, and whether parenthood truly lives up to its promise. We reflect on how fast life shifts, both in the spotlight and at home. With humor and heart, we explore generational shifts, family dynamics, codependency, and the strange satisfaction of hearing your kids finally echo the advice they once rolled their eyes at.
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by Gene Crawford | Jul 21, 2025 | Podcast
What defines real masculinity in a world full of noise and posturing? In this episode, we examine the quiet strength of Tom Hardy and Keanu Reeves—two men who embody humility, discipline, and dedication without seeking validation. From Hardy’s jiu-jitsu tournaments to Reeves’ relentless film prep, we explore how martial arts and consistent practice reflect true inner strength. Contrasting their grounded ethos with the spectacle-driven antics of “manfluencers,” we highlight the value of self-improvement over performance. Tune in for a powerful reflection on authenticity, presence, and redefining masculinity through silence, discipline, and an unwavering commitment to personal growth.
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by Gene Crawford | Jul 14, 2025 | Podcast
Author and modern masculinity advocate Kelvin Davis joins us to explore the difference between being a “nice guy” and being a good man. Drawing from his upcoming book, Kelvin shares seven transformative principles—from setting boundaries to self-respect—that challenge performative niceness and promote authentic integrity. We dive into how social media often rewards superficial validation over sincere action, and why honest communication matters more than ever. Kelvin reflects on his inspiring journey—from a childhood dream sparked by a JCPenney ad to founding Notoriously Dapper, overcoming body-shaming, and building a modeling career rooted in body positivity and self-worth. He opens up about personal growth through therapy, quitting alcohol, and reevaluating relationships during the pandemic. This candid conversation highlights the power of self-reflection, discipline, and internal validation. Whether you’re navigating modern relationships or redefining your role as a man, this episode offers grounded insight into becoming the kind of man who leads with honesty, respect, and purpose.
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by Gene Crawford | Jun 2, 2025 | Podcast
In this Debrief episode, we kick off with the bizarre trend of men shaving their eyelashes, a quirky gateway into a deeper discussion about how AI might be dulling our problem-solving and empathetic abilities. From there, we confront social media’s culture of complaint, emphasizing the value of personal accountability and small, consistent action. Shifting to leadership, we question the obsession with KPIs, advocating instead for empathy-driven innovation. Finally, inspired by figures like Anthony Mackie, we explore modern masculinity, physical readiness, and the power of using digital platforms for growth. Tune in for sharp insights on staying human in a hyper-digital world.
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