by Gene Crawford | Jul 14, 2025 | Podcast
Author and modern masculinity advocate Kelvin Davis joins us to explore the difference between being a “nice guy” and being a good man. Drawing from his upcoming book, Kelvin shares seven transformative principles—from setting boundaries to self-respect—that challenge performative niceness and promote authentic integrity. We dive into how social media often rewards superficial validation over sincere action, and why honest communication matters more than ever. Kelvin reflects on his inspiring journey—from a childhood dream sparked by a JCPenney ad to founding Notoriously Dapper, overcoming body-shaming, and building a modeling career rooted in body positivity and self-worth. He opens up about personal growth through therapy, quitting alcohol, and reevaluating relationships during the pandemic. This candid conversation highlights the power of self-reflection, discipline, and internal validation. Whether you’re navigating modern relationships or redefining your role as a man, this episode offers grounded insight into becoming the kind of man who leads with honesty, respect, and purpose.
(more…)
by Gene Crawford | Jul 7, 2025 | Podcast
This episode tackles the spectacle of performative masculinity and the rise of man-fluencers like Liver King, Wes Watson, and Jack Donovan. We expose the marketing behind ancestral tenets, supplement empires, and controversial ideologies. From Liver King’s arrest to Jack Donovan’s far-right leanings, we question what’s real versus contrived. We highlight the contrast between performative posturing and authentic growth, featuring a post from Kelvin Davis as a grounded example. We also critique how workouts like Murph get hijacked by social media. Wrapping with a wild gorilla-versus-humans debate, this episode blends serious critique with humor to explore what masculinity really means today.
(more…)
by Gene Crawford | Mar 24, 2025 | Podcast
What does it take to turn a felony conviction into a story of triumph? In this powerful episode, Derek Tsuboi opens up about his transformation—from legal struggles and hidden truths to Spartan race glory and entrepreneurial success. With raw honesty, he shares how embracing authenticity, enduring hardship, and redefining failure led him to reclaim his life. Don’t miss this exclusive conversation about resilience, redemption, and the power of owning your story.
(more…)
by Gene Crawford | Jan 13, 2025 | Podcast
Join Greg and I as we discuss the intertwined journey of life, business, and personal growth. We share lessons learned about taking responsibility for our choices, focusing on what we can control, and maintaining emotional balance—especially in challenging client interactions. Reflecting on early setbacks, we discuss the value of time as a finite resource, the importance of aligning work with personal values, and setting boundaries around less fulfilling commitments. Through stories of resilience, consistency, and integrity, we highlight the parallels between martial arts, entrepreneurship, and life, encouraging growth through presence, reflection, and intentional action.
(more…)
by Gene Crawford | Sep 10, 2024 | Podcast
In this episode we delve into the extraordinary life and career of Doug Bramlett, a seasoned veteran of both the military and law enforcement. His journey from an aspiring investigator to guarding Air Force One is filled with inspiring tales and profound insights. This episode not only explores Doug’s professional milestones but also touches on the critical topics of high level training and mental health challenges faced by first responders.
One of the most profound aspects of this episode is Doug’s candid discussion about the psychological toll of a career in law enforcement. He shares personal experiences dealing with trauma and hypervigilance, and the importance of seeking counseling and support. Programs like the VA’s trauma recovery and Travis Howze’ Post Traumatic Purpose seminars are highlighted as invaluable resources for first responders. Doug’s reflections on the ongoing journey of healing and addressing mental health struggles early provide a heartfelt and powerful perspective on resilience and recovery.
Doug’s insights into the complexities of police firearms training, the intricacies of fraud investigations, and the emotional challenges faced by first responders make for a compelling and enlightening conversation. Doug’s story is a testament to the resilience and dedication required in a career dedicated to public service, and his emphasis on the importance of mental health support is a crucial reminder for all those in similar fields.
Tune in to this powerful episode to hear Doug’s full story and gain valuable insights into the world of law enforcement and mental health.
(more…)
