by Gene Crawford | Jul 14, 2025 | Podcast
Author and modern masculinity advocate Kelvin Davis joins us to explore the difference between being a “nice guy” and being a good man. Drawing from his upcoming book, Kelvin shares seven transformative principles—from setting boundaries to self-respect—that challenge performative niceness and promote authentic integrity. We dive into how social media often rewards superficial validation over sincere action, and why honest communication matters more than ever. Kelvin reflects on his inspiring journey—from a childhood dream sparked by a JCPenney ad to founding Notoriously Dapper, overcoming body-shaming, and building a modeling career rooted in body positivity and self-worth. He opens up about personal growth through therapy, quitting alcohol, and reevaluating relationships during the pandemic. This candid conversation highlights the power of self-reflection, discipline, and internal validation. Whether you’re navigating modern relationships or redefining your role as a man, this episode offers grounded insight into becoming the kind of man who leads with honesty, respect, and purpose.
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by Gene Crawford | Apr 29, 2024 | Podcast
Success is often clouded by self-doubt and the fear of being exposed as an imposter. In this latest episode Greg and I discuss overcoming these fears through authenticity and vulnerability.
We share our experiences with imposter syndrome and discuss the impact of societal pressures and curated social media. We offer insights from our backgrounds in business, martial arts, real estate, providing strategies to help you fight self-doubt.
We examine the role of external validation and emphasize the importance of internal metrics, highlighting Gary Vaynerchuk’s and Dr. Sean Pastuch’s insights. We define imposter syndrome and its various types, using personal stories to illustrate our journey through self-acceptance.
One significant takeaway is the struggle with pricing our worth. We discuss how the tension between commercial success and artistic integrity can fuel imposter feelings, especially when it comes to pricing and negotiation. We stress the importance of valuing one’s work and charging what one is truly worth.
Remember, imposter syndrome doesn’t define you. It’s a shared experience, and by confronting it with honesty and courage, we can all emerge victorious.
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by Gene Crawford | Jun 11, 2023 | Podcast
Discover the profound impact of social media on mental health and confidence, inspired by none other than Arnold Schwarzenegger and his insightful email newsletter. As we navigate this digital world, find out how scrolling through endless feeds can lead to a crisis of confidence, and how the false bravado we witness online can make us feel like we need to despise ourselves. It’s time to break the cycle, step out of our comfort zones, and face life’s challenges head-on – and this episode is the perfect starting point!
Join us as we delve into the often-neglected topic of mental health, highlighting the reluctance many face in expressing emotions and seeking help. We discuss the role societal pressures, upbringing, and social media have on this hesitancy, and stress the importance of having someone to talk to about our feelings. From discussing seemingly trivial matters to tackling deeply-rooted issues, communication is the ultimate key in maintaining mental health.
Lastly, we examine the essential role of physical activity in managing mental health and building resilience. We can’t emphasize enough the importance of training both the mind and body, and how stepping out of our comfort zones and embracing discomfort can lead to personal growth. So don’t wait any longer – tune into this conversation as we explore the complex world of mental health, social media, and personal growth, all inspired by the legendary Arnold Schwarzenegger.
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