by Gene Crawford | Mar 23, 2026 | Podcast
A viral post on Hacker News asked a deceptively simple question: “How to be alone?” A 38-year-old man, freshly out of a twenty-year relationship, described his life as “solitary confinement with internet.” Over 550+ people responded with advice ranging from gym memberships to God.
Ask HN: How to be alone? https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=47296547
In this episode, Gene Crawford takes that thread apart and builds a warrior’s framework around it. The conversation covers the critical distinction between solitude and isolation, why coping is a trap that can cost you years, how discipline and routine become the floor you stand on when everything else collapses, and the concept of finding your “dojo,” the place where real bonds form through shared effort and repeated presence.
Grounded in Stoic philosophy, Bushido principles, and practical experience, this episode is for anyone navigating a major life transition, dealing with loneliness, or trying to figure out who they are when nobody is watching.
Never give up. Never quit. Kaizen.
by Gene Crawford | Oct 20, 2025 | Podcast
Modern society stands at a crossroads between integrity and adaptation. In this episode, we explore whether evolving cultural norms erode traditional virtues across martial arts, entrepreneurship, and politics. Drawing from the voices of the great Stoics, we examine how societal pressure challenges long-held standards and values. We then uncover the essence of the warrior ethos, rooted in wisdom, justice, fortitude, and temperance, through examples from Gladiator, Naruto, and real-world practice. We dissect leadership in the modern age, contrasting authenticity with performative virtue. From Marcus Aurelius to today’s influencers, we reveal how social media often rewards image over integrity, urging a return to genuine strength and disciplined conviction.
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by Gene Crawford | Aug 4, 2025 | Podcast
After earning a red card at a youth soccer game, Aaron and I reflect on emotional control, brutal honesty, and the power of self-censorship. Inspired by Jefferson Fisher and “Self-Censorship Is Actually Good,” we role-play ways to speak truth with empathy. From sideline chaos and parenting stress to stoic communication principles, this episode blends humor, humility, and hard-earned lessons. Learn to navigate social tension, say “no” with confidence, and speak wisely—especially when emotions run high.
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by Gene Crawford | Mar 17, 2025 | Podcast
Unlock the secrets of honor, strength, and wisdom through Miyamoto Musashi’s 21 Principles for Life, a timeless guide to resilience and personal growth. We explore how his teachings transcend materialism and emotional dependence, drawing parallels with modern warriors like Jocko Willink. By embracing extreme ownership, discipline, and self-reliance, we uncover strategies for decisive action and acceptance of reality. Drawing from Stoic philosophy and Navy SEAL principles, we highlight the power of detachment, integrity, and responsibility. Through the samurai ethos and military discipline, we emphasize the importance of a guiding philosophy that defines true strength and the warrior’s way of life.
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